Experiencing Death without Dying

A Two-day Workshop on Suicide Prevention

เวอร์ชั่นภาษาไทย

with Rev. Jotetsu Nemoto

Rinzai Zen Monk

Abbot of Daizen-ji Temple, Gifu,Japan

In 1998, the suicide rate in Japan exploded with the Asia currency crisis that began the year before. For over thirteen consecutive years it remained more than 30,000 per year—in the space of a little more than a decade over 400,000 Japanese died of suicide, a silent war that did not make international headlines.

In the early years of this pandemic, a young Zen monk emerged from his 6-year hermitage to enter deeply into the work of supporting those who wanted to die. Using his own existential instincts and the insights gained from six years of intensive Zen practice, he began connecting with the lost, disconnected, and suicidal via social media. Eventually, his work expanded to gatherings of such persons at various locations including his temple where he developed a workshop called tabidachi or The Departure. Simulating the process of letting go of possessions, relationships, and identity during the stages of terminal cancer, he discovered a powerful therapeutic tool to not only work with the suicidal but for anyone concerned with examining the meaning of their lives and confronting the grief of loved ones who have passed away.

Tabidachi workshop

This two-day workshop will offer 3 main components

  1. suicide prevention counseling skills drawn from Rev. Nemoto’s two decades of experience working with the suicidal both as individuals and in group contexts. 
  2. ritual healing for bereaved families through specially designed funeral and memorial services called tsuito-hoyo
  3. the experience of the tabidachi workshop for participants to explore their own relationship with death as well as learn the method of the workshop. 

This is the first time Rev. Nemoto has taught outside of Japan in a language other than his native Japanese. It is a precious opportunity to examine the meaning of “this precious life”. For more on Rev. Nemoto, click here, and more on the movement of Japanese priests fighting suicide & self-death, click here.

Participants: Limited to 20-25 monastics, both male and female, from Thailand and Myanmar

Date: March 10-11, 2025

  • Participants are expected to arrive the evening of the 9th and depart no earlier than the morning of the 12th to fully experience the contents of the workshop

Location: Wongsanit Ashram, Nakorn Nayok, Thailand

special memorial service (tsuito hoyo) for bereaved familes at Gokoku-ji Temple, Tokyo, 2010

Tentative Schedule:

Day 1

5:00 Morning instruction in “seated Zen” (zazen) with chanting of the Heart Sutra

6:30 breakfast

8:30 Opening Session

  • participants self introduction & expectation
  • Rev. Nemoto discusses his life path and work, Q&A with participants

9:45 tea break

10:00 Workshop: Funerals and rituals for suicides and their bereaved families

11:30 lunch

14:00 Workshop: Ritual healing for bereaved families

17:00 finish

17:30 herbal sauna

19:00 Evening zazen followed by viewing of the movie The Departure (90 mins) Nemoto’s life and work with Q&A

21:30 finish

Day 2

5:00 Morning instruction in “seated Zen” (zazen) with chanting of the Heart Sutra

6:30 breakfast

8:30 Group work on future plans and activities

11:30 lunch

13:00 Tabidachi workshop

18:00 break

19:00 evening reflection

This is the first of an ongoing series in Buddhist chaplaincy for Theravadin monastics in the region. Upcoming workshops will feature:

  • Gender violence and social inclusivity counseling with Ouyporn Khuankaew
  • End of Life Care with Phra Phaisan Visalo
  • Energetic regulation and healing to activate Buddha Dhamma with Ven. Zinai
special memorial service (tsuito hoyo) for bereaved familes at Zojo-ji Temple, Tokyo, 2011